I was trying to write a gracious summary of the many comments here over the last few days, but the words were not coming. Fortunately, TitusOneNine posted a link to this piece by Fr. Clark West. Now, he's a "progressive, liberal, revisionist or reappraiser." He and I would disagree on many things. But his point is a good one - there is a time where gracious separation, with hope of reconciliation and reunion over time - is better than trying to beat one another into submission and humiliation.
Please give it a read. Don't worry about the little blips of disagreeable stuff you might encounter - look to his main point. And pray and think on some ways that such a gracious move might emerge in The Episcopal Church and Anglican Communion.